6 Signs You Have An Insecure Flavor In Love Relations

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JAKARTA - Feelings of insecurity in a romantic relationship are usually accompanied by a needy attitude, fear of rejection, and high jealousy. This feeling can be caused by various things, one of which is a bad time that makes you afraid of losing the person you love.

But excessive anxiety can be a threat to relationships. Gradually your partner will feel uncomfortable with your attitude. Check out six signs that you have a sense of insecurity in your relationship.

One of the signs of insecurity in relationships is excessive fear of losing a partner. This insecure makes you feel insecure in your partner's eyes. According to a study, launching the Marriage.com page, Wednesday, February 22, the main cause of insecurity is sexual dissatisfaction.

There is a certain level of jealousy in a relationship that is considered healthy. In addition, you are in a committed relationship and of course you don't want other people to damage what you and your partner have built together. However, there is a point where this healthy jealousy turns into a sense of insecurity that undermines it. For example, the behavior of spying on your partner to constantly questioning its existence when you are not together.

Control behavior, such as demanding your partner end their friendship with other people because it makes you uncomfortable. In addition, you always ask your partner to go wherever he goes. If you don't want your relationship to end, learn to let go and build trust in a relationship.

One of the signs that you are insecure in a marriage is that if you ask for access to your partner's electronic devices such as cell phones, tablets, to social media accounts. You may be paranoid, wondering if your partner has a naughty app or has inappropriate conversations in private messages.

To let go of this feeling, you need to admit that you can't change your partner's actions by continuously monitoring it. If you can accept it, then you can get a sense of peace.

Am I interesting? Are you looking after me? Do you want to be with me? Are you loyal? Why do you keep waiting for me?

All of this is a question that is driven by insecurity. When you feel insecure with yourself, you will constantly ask your partner for certainty to validate yourself and your feelings.

Differences of opinion and conflict are commonplace in relationships. This helps get to know more about your partner through their attitudes and thoughts. But when you have an insecurity sense in your partner, you tend to run or cover up conflicts because you don't want to lose your partner. At first it looked good because there was no conflict, but this habit is actually dangerous.