5 Problems Of Making Love That Are Generally Experienced By Couples, Can't Beneficiated

Illustration of lovemaking problems that are common in couples (Freepik/Drazen_Zigic)

YOGYAKARTA Problems in love relations, trigger the vulnerability of a partner's intimacy. But by fixing problems related to making love, it can also fix other problems with the capital of intimacy with a partner.

According to Michael Karson, Ph.D., professor of psychology at the University of Denver, creating a bond is not easy. In fact, they often experience problems in bonds, especially in making love. Reported by Psychology Today, Monday, January 9, along with the problems of sex partners that are often experienced.

When one of the couples is buried secretly or openly dissatisfied with the frequency and activity of making love, it can cause hatred and reduce enthusiasm. In conventional couples, according to Karson, this is more common for men. They do not communicate honestly with their partners.

If a person does not actively appreciate his relationship, there will be more problems to attend. This means that every couple needs to stay active and explore new sensations in making love is a strategy to meet their needs and their partner.

For a partner who has just had a baby, maybe his role will increase. This can affect the life of making love, especially if the role is not divided in a balanced manner. Although many cultures believe that women take over from accompanying children, couples need to agree on the matter of sharing roles. Because otherwise, the mother did not have time to meet the needs related to her sexuality life.

Many of their sexual problems stem from their difficulty discussing the topic. They grew up in a family that makes this topic taboo to talk about. But don't see that sex is an important part of life, including romance and marriage. Karson suggested that every couple needs to be open in sexual communication.

Many things trigger the anxiety of your partner's interest in making love. Apart from being busy, emotional closeness and boredom can also trigger. In addition, reproductive health conditions can also affect. Therefore, every couple needs to find solutions to their sexual life. Among other things, by discussing with a partner or professional if you need recommendations.

Couples often fall into a trap to compare their relationship with other partners. The sex life is also influenced by that.

In addition to the five problems above, there are other problems that may be experienced by partners making love. Problems are experienced when you have negative views on your image. For example, feeling not sexy, feeling not free or conquered.