Communicating When Making Love Needs To Be Done Properly, So It Don't Be Obstituent

Illustration of communicating while making love (Freepik/jcomp)

YOGYAKARTA The difference in desire or the length of time is not making love, it may make couples feel awkward. Sometimes even there is a fear of hope that doesn't match reality. Experienced expert and licensed sex therapistwry Gyeim, provides advice on how to communicate about sex during sex.

A committed partner doesn't always make love. Due to busyness, making love becomes more frequent. According to Gleim as reported by Psychology Today, Sunday, November 6, his client complained about the feeling of awkwardness, forecasts about orgasm, and fear of many expectations that are not conveyed about moments with the couple. Because of this problem, Gleim provides special guidance for communicating about sex during sex.

If something feels positive or fun, there are several ways to communicate it. You can use body language, for example to close your body to your partner. Usually, by closing your body and communicating fun things will result in healthy relationships. For verbal communication, you can vocalize your voice Aaah, Yes!, More!,

In addition to communicating fun things, you and your partner also need to be honest in communicating about painful things. For example, if you feel pain, you can express it in the word 'Oh my!'. Because your partner may not be able to read from the discomfort of the body when making love, verbally communicating it will be better.

According to Gleim, avoid assuming that your partner will respond directly by reading your body language. So, it is necessary to communicate verbally about the sensation of pain or discomfort experienced.

In addition, if you feel pain you need to lower the spike in tensions in the nervous system. Papa stops making out with your partner for a while. After that, you and your partner can continue with a sexier and more comfortable atmosphere for everyone.

If you expect something, it needs to be communicated as well. Including when the stimulus does not create a desired sensation, there is no need to be afraid to communicate it. According to Gleim, there is nothing wrong with communicating things that are not as expected. Even Gyem provides an understanding that everyone is responsible for their own pleasure.

"Say the words that can be said, don't be too harsh. For example, by saying, 'Unfortunately, can we just do X?', or, 'I really want to do Y now, and again,' Can you move to a higher/lower/harder/slower?.

Gleim's message, everyone who couples and makes love together pursues pleasure when making love. That is, no one has to feel great or no one just receives feedback. Furthermore, every couple need to contribute to their partner's pleasure and be responsible for their own pleasure.