Sex Experts Reveal Why Many Couples Choose To Live A Polyamory Lifestyle

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JAKARTA - Nadia Bokody, sexpert (sex expert) from Australia, recently investigated the reasons behind couples choosing to have sex with other people.

He claims it's a - one - simple way to rekindle the 'fire' in the bedroom when things get boring.

The author, who has 59,100 followers on Instagram, discusses why internet searches for polyamory have spiked.

"Humans do not succeed with monotony. And nothing is more clear than our romantic relationship," said Nadia quoted by the NZ Herald, Wednesday, December 2.

Nadia revealed, so many e-mails from readers complaining that they feel 'trapped' in a marriage.

"Despite our out-of-culture obsession with monogamy, very few of us enjoy the fact of experiencing events in a relationship that recur and our attitudes are slowly shifting to reflect this," said Nadia.

In the past decade, Nadia continued, internet searches about polyamory have surged and dating apps are designed to meet the demands of couples exploring alternative relationship models.

This sexual writer believes couples are beginning to acknowledge the fact that sex and love can exist independently. And when sex 'dries up', partners find themselves questioning whether 'love is gone' too.

"Culturally, we cling to the idea that sex is easy and instinctive in the presence of love. Many couples claim having sex with someone other than their partner - with their partner's knowledge and permission - is the incentive to rekindle the 'spark' in their marriage. , "explained Nadia.

But Nadia warns that if this is something you want to explore, it's best to talk to your partner first.

Couples can explore orgy together or try apps that meet their sexual needs.

"Of course, boundaries should be discussed before embarking on this journey. How often do you feel comfortable with your partner seeing other people? Can you see the same person more than once? And it is not for everyone," the sex expert continued.

"As someone who has tested conventional models - complete with annoying marriage records and joint bank accounts - I can confirm that traditional monogamy is not for me."