5 Reasons Why Flirting In Your Partner Has A Positive Effect On Relationships

Illustration of reasons why flirtation in a partner has a positive effect on relationships (Pexels/Gustavo Fring)

YOGYAKARTA – Flirting with your partner is a way to tell him that you are interested in him. It's most dangerous when your partner has never been flirty, says certified relationship coach Chris Armstrong. Because without flirting or being flirty, the relationship will feel boring.

Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure, tells us that when two people in a 'safe' partner are flirting less and less, they usually miss out on the fun. From Levine's explanation, every couple needs to understand that being flirty and flirting with your partner has an important purpose, which is as follows:

1. Make you and your partner smile

Flirting with flirting is not a daily chore, but if done occasionally can make you and your partner smile. If you need a new, sexy mood in your relationship, try flirting with a good partner via text or a wink.

2. Remind what you like about your partner

You are with your partner not without reason, right? Just because you're sure about your choice, doesn't mean you should forget what you love about your partner. Flirting can remind you of all the things your partner finds attractive, making the relationship stronger.

Illustration of flirtation in a partner has a positive effect on relationships (Pexels/Gustavo Fring)

3. Connected in an emotional bond

In sexual life, flirting explicitly or implicitly leads the mind to sexual activity. Flirting or flirting with your partner, has two benefits. In addition to building connectedness, desire also builds the emotional aspect. Levine said in Bustle, Monday, April 25, teasing keeps the fun and banter alive. That way the energy flows between the two people so that they are connected.

4. Rewarming the relationship

If the relationship feels cold and there is no warmth, maybe it's time for you and your partner to return to the beginning of the relationship. In the early days, more flirting. Try to flirt with each other, this can be a way to keep the spark of warmth alive.

5. Recreate the chemistry

Chemical bonding or chemistry may not be a calculative aspect and it can be calculated with precision how each partner can maintain it. However, to keep the flames of chemistry burning in a long-term relationship, schedule a date together. The atmosphere will be warmer if assisted by flirting or flirting with your partner.

In addition to the five reasons above, flirting makes both of you feel comfortable. It can also be a reminder that you are attractive, desirable, and sexy to your partner. This encouragement can help increase self-confidence.