Trapped In Cyber Love, Here Are Tips So You Don't Get Fallen In The Cyber World's Trap

Illustration (Tonktiti/iStockphoto)

JAKARTA - The phenomenon of dating on social media often happens recently or is often referred to as cyber love. The sophistication of this technology makes everyone able to find their partner even though they have not met.

However, you also have to be careful about finding and dating people you haven't met or only met through social media. There are often scams that use fake profiles to ask people out which lead to fraud. Here are some tips for those who are in the cyber love stage.

Get to know your partner more deeply

Of course, before you start a conversation with people you just met through social media, you need to pay attention to the identity of the device partner. You must clearly identify his identity such as age, place of work, and hobbies.

In addition, you can also interact with close friends about your relationship with social media partners. Of course advice from friends is very valuable and it is likely that your friends will help to trace the accuracy of the information from the pair of devices. This is done so that you do not fall into fraud through social media.

Don't Put Too Much Feeling

It's okay to have feelings, but you also shouldn't completely put feelings for people you just met through social media. This is because conversations in social media also do not fully reflect a person's attitude in real life.

It could be between a partner or you have a different personality between real life and social media. Therefore you have to be careful in fostering social media relationships that are still "gray"

Act appropriately

The advantage of this cyber love is that you can easily meet someone who is suitable and can even become a partner via the internet. Of course you also have to behave appropriately to your partner device. Especially those who haven't met in real life and haven't gotten close yet.

Therefore, you can behave properly like a friend and have to limit yourself to your smartphone friends so you don't go out of line in chat and behave on social media.