According To Experts, Still Wearing Clothes When Making Love Helps Increase Intimacy Of Married Couples

Illustration of how to increase the intimacy of a married couple (Pexels/Shvets Anna)

JAKARTA – For married couples, intimacy is not only measured by how often they make love. Even according to experts, how often make love is not the only measure of a happy couple. Well, a professional sex therapist and psychologist, revealed unique facts about sex while wearing clothes for married couples.

Marianne Brandon, Ph.D., clinical psychologist and sex therapist, in her personal page writes that without taking off your clothes when making love with a partner, is a way to learn the depth and intensity of love. Making love with clothes on will 'force' you and your partner to rely on the strongest aspect of intimacy, writes doctor Brandon.

The aspect of intimacy is often overlooked by many couples. According to Brandon's explanation, when making love with clothes, it allows you and your partner to concentrate on all aspects of making love that take the sex experience from boring to soft bliss. When the deepest aspects of the sex session have been tested, negative effects such as penis size, low libido, premature ejaculation, and vulvar pain are less of a concern for you and your partner.

Making love with clothes means relying on focusing on your love relationship and your partner. The way everyone sees their partner is also more pure and not pretending.

Another reason why sex with clothes works so well is that it takes the pressure off how long sex lasts. It can even give women the opportunity to enjoy the sexual experience without the stress of an orgasm.

Brandon adds, this type of sex forces a level of intimacy and may be uncomfortable at first. But if done correctly, it can be a meaningful lovemaking experience.

Various spontaneous positions can also be done when making love without removing clothes. Reported by Cosmopolitan, giving each other a touch can be done until the body's response follows the intimacy that is established. Focus on what the clothes are wrapped in to respond to each other.

Like unzipping without taking anything off. Flirting with your partner with a whisper or a natural change in voice color because the desire to make love is getting hotter. Of course, there is no need to pretend and keep verbal and emotional communication with your partner.