JAKARTA - Unsatisfactory sexual relations may occur in married couples. This can occur due to various factors, ranging from conflicts, non-primary body conditions, to sloping stress.

However, there is no need to worry because sexual intercourse can still be improved to remain satisfactory. However, achieving it requires time, effort, and the will of both parties to make changes.

"Intimacy is not something you can achieve overnight or by following some quick fixes. You must be willing to work and committed to seeing some changes in your sex life," said the author and who studied related relationships, Devina Kaur, quoted from Healthshots on Thursday, October 9, 2025.

Keep in mind that sex is an intimate act involving physical and psychological contact. Here are some tips for getting sexual satisfaction consistently.

1. Good communication

Communication is the key to having a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship with your partner. When we communicate openly and honestly with each other, it will be easier to share what you really think.

This allows you to express your desires and needs without fear of an assessment from your partner. It is also important to discuss the expectations of each other in sex, so that you can work well together to achieve mutual satisfaction.

2. Acceptance

Learning to accept yourself is the first step towards a happy and satisfying sex. With acceptance, you mean creating a safe space for you and your partner to be yourself.

Acceptance means creating a safe space for your partner to be themselves and what their sexual needs are. It opens channels for better communication and leads to improvements in sex life," he added.

3. Open thinking

Open thinking also helps you to get a consistent sexual life. Explore your own body and sexuality or with your partner.

This will teach you about the point of pleasure and your desire for sex. Masturbation itself or together, to explore various sex positions and use sex toys to find something that suits you and your partner the most.


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