Want To Try Spiderman Sex Style? This Is A Risk And Tips Are Safe

Illustration of the Spiderman sex style. (Freepic)

JAKARTA - Talking about Spiderman's sex style in bed does not mean a red-blue costume or a hanging action in the building. What is meant is a Spider sex position, which is a unique, slightly challenging style of sex, but can provide a new sensation for couples who want to try it.

This position is called Spider, because the body shape of the partner during sex looks cross-legged and parallel, similar to the legs of the spider facing each other. The two pairs are in a relatively horizontal position, different from the doggy style or missionary who is usually upright.

"This position does require a little flexibility, but it's not as difficult as it seems. Couples can start by lying on their backs, opposite each other's heads, and the legs lengthen on the side of the partner's body. Or it can also sit face to face, the recipient sits on the lap of the penetration partner, then the circular feet above the feet of the couple," said Kate Balestrieri, Psy.D., clinical psychologist and differential and founder of Modern Intimacy, quoted from the Men's Health page.

"Alraise the genital position for penetration, then the two partners leaned on their hands or elbows while slightly lifting their hips," he continued.

Spider's position has several advantages that make it worth a try.

"This position is suitable for those who want a slower and more intimate sex experience. Frontal pressure on the vaginal walls can increase the chances of orgasm, even scanning," said Daniel Saynt, founder of the New Society for Wellness (NSFW).

For couples who try anal sex, Gregory Kilpatrick, LMFT adds, "If the penis is curved upwards, this position can hit the prostate appropriately and provide extraordinary pleasure".

"For recipients, this position provides room for complete release, curved back, and dissolved in sensation," Balestrieri said.

Even though it sounds tempting, the Spider style is not risk-free. Balestrieri gave a warning.

"This position is difficult to maintain for a long time, especially if strength, flexibility, or limited endurance," he said.

Meanwhile, Kilpatrick added that the limited flexibility of the back as well as the strength of the arms and shoulders could be a major obstacle.

In addition, this position makes it difficult to use your hands to stimulate other parts of the body such as clitoris, penis, or nipples.

"If you like hand stimulation or fast movement, this style may not be suitable. Implementation is also prone to being cut off if you move too much," said Saynt.

Safe Tips For Doing Spiderman Style

To reduce body tension, Kilpatrick recommends the use of thick pillows as back support for recipients. The penetration couple can also lean on the pillow or back of the head so they don't get tired quickly.

"Try to sit upright facing each other with circular legs on the waist and hands hugging your partner's body. This is known as a tough position, giving you time to breathe, enjoying contact, then returning to Spider without breaking penetration", Balestrieri said.