JAKARTA - When they find out that a couple is involved in online gambling, anger and disappointment are definitely raging in the heart. However, before getting angry there is a better way that needs to be shown according to psychologist's advice.
Clinical psychologist from the University of Indonesia Phoebe Ramadina, M.Psi., Psychologists say it is necessary to prioritize honest and empathetic communication when accompanying couples involved in online gambling (judol).
"It is important to prioritize honest and empathetic communication. Provide opportunities for your partner to explain the situation they are facing. Express your concerns, especially regarding their impact on financial condition and family welfare," Phoebe said as quoted by ANTARA.
This clinical psychologist at Personal Growth said anger, disappointment or worry was a natural reaction when he learned that couples were involved in harmful behaviors such as online gambling.
However, communication must still be built by discussing a realistic solution to this situation. He said that partner support is needed in this process considering online gambling is not just a bad habit but can be a form of addiction that requires professional handling.
"Support from a partner is very meaningful in this process, but keeping healthy boundaries crucial so as not to sacrifice yourself in the midst of the struggle," Phoebe said.
He also suggested building communication with a non-judicial approach and using language that reflects concern, not accusations, so that couples do not feel attacked and more open to conversations.
Invite your partner to jointly seek information about online gambling losses and steps to overcome their addiction. Convey also honest but calm concerns about the negative impact of online gambling both on family, financial conditions, and the common future.
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He also suggested seeking help from psychologists or counselors as an important step in the recovery process. With assistance from professionals, the recovery process can be more focused and in-depth.
"A empathetic and supportive approach can be an important first step in change," he said.
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