4 Things That Hinder Life Is More Developing

YOGYAKARTA Without realizing it, many things can prevent it from developing. Often what hinders it is not the lack of money, poor relationships, or limited education. It is precisely the way we live life, behavior, and habits that hinder.

Avoiding, or not liking unexpected things or afraid of failure to fear conflict, the trigger is fear. The problem with avoidance is not because it rules out problems, challenges, temporary conflicts. But neglecting and avoiding is considered better continuously makes a person hampered from 'upgrading'.

Feeling that you still have a lot of time to avoid or ignore things that should be done, makes you complacent. In this situation, or called negative interest, makes life not develop.

You can be optimistic when you believe you can achieve what you want. But most people, negative views, think you can't be successful, life is a struggle, and can't trust others to support their success. If a negative story is remembered, full of trauma, it probably won't make you better. Precisely remembering it closely will be difficult to make you develop. On the other hand, dealing with a bad past needs to be accompanied by reaffirming your self image that you deserve what you want.

When you expect a certain achievement, handover has a limit. When efforts have reached the peak but achievements have not been seen, then there are factors that cannot be controlled so you need to surrender. But sometimes you don't get success because you stop walking. You give up and surrender before the effort peaks.

The four things above can hinder getting better. Whether it's achievement, success, or self-growth. The simplest thing to achieve your achievements, the key is action. Do something different, take small steps, have the will, get support to keep moving forward, and don't expect rapid changes, Bob Taibbi's message, LSCW., reported by Psychology Today, Wednesday, February 14.