Video Video Case Of Rebecca Klopper: Embedding Norma Understanding To Teens Is Very Important
JAKARTA - Young artist Rebecca Klopper has returned to being a byword after a nasty video that looks like herself circulating in cyberspace. In the 11-minute video, you can see a woman who looks like Rebecca making out with a man.
This isn't the first time Rebecca has stumbled on a nasty video. In May, the artist who was born 21 years ago also boomed due to the exciting video of the first part.
Rebecca is actually not the first artist whose personal video has become public consumption. But even though there have been many examples of losses recording personal activities, it seems that many people still ignore the risks that lurk.
Apart from the video Rebecca Klopper or not, but the public should be able to take lessons that recording sex activities is not a wise idea. The risk of leaked video recordings is not commensurate with the pleasure that may be felt when taking exciting videos.
According to sex psychologist and therapist Lori Lawrenz, one of the risks taken is that it can hurt privacy. Sex content that has been immortalized or shared with a partner is not impossible to spread to become the consumption of the wider community.
"The danger is that one or more people will share images and voice messages, text, or videos without the sender's permission," Lawrenz quoted Medical News Today as saying.
The phenomenon of recording sex activities has occurred very often. Prior to this, artist Gisella Anastasia also had to bear shame because her exciting video was spread on social media.
Child, adolescent and family psychologist Sani Budiantini Hermawan said that judging one of the videos of sex scenes that most young people do is because they want to provide their own satisfaction.
In general, young people or someone often explore things that they find interesting to record. Whether it's for exploration or personal consumption, it's a motive for young people now that is different from other people. Dare to explore or dare to spend things outside the norms of society provides their own satisfaction, because in the digital era everyone has a stage and by doing that they feel their own satisfaction, "Sani told VOI.
Technological advances are referred to as one proof of the advancement of human civilization. Unfortunately, technology has not only had a positive impact on life but also has a negative impact, including the entry of western culture which is increasingly accessible to young people. Technological advances are considered to take part in increasing promiscuity so as to shift the noble values adopted by eastern culture, including Indonesia.
In the digital era, everyone is free to see what they want, then they imitate, have the freedom to do what they want. In the end, the values of the ancestors, the noble values of the family, eventually become degraded, plus the entry of the values of the western world. We know that in Indonesia, everything is based on religious norms, but now it is minimal because of the influence of western culture," Sani added.
Meanwhile, in the journal Free Sex in Youth and Handling, it is stated that the rise of free sex is influenced by one of the internals of the individual itself. Feelings of mutual like by making sex a proof of love between lovers or curiosity.
Free sex also occurs because of the lack of parental attention to children. When individuals feel lack of affection, they try to find affection from others. By having sex with their partner they believe that they get affection from their partner.
The spread of videos of sex activities is certainly very detrimental, especially for women who are often victims. According to forensic clinical psychologist Kasandra Putranto, the victim is threatened with feeling threatened when her sex video is spread. In fact, it is not uncommon for victims to become depressed and have high anxiety.
Personal videos are often shared by those closest to you and make it difficult for victims to trust people. When their personal moments are spread, victims often feel that they are 'dirty' and unfit. Trauma felt by the victim can result in victims withdrawing from the community because they feel ashamed, inappropriate and tried by the wider community," Kasandra explained.
Meanwhile, Sani Budiantini Hermawan said that free sex among teenagers also has the potential to shift the values of easternness adopted in Indonesia.
Long-term effects, if this country does not maintain eastern values, in the end, like a completely vulgar western country, completely without decency, so it is a vulgar culture.
Sani added the importance of introducing religious values to children from an early age, although it needs a process that is certainly not easy. He also invited parents to become positive role models so that children could follow them which would later be carried away until they became teenagers.
On the other hand, Kasandra Putranto said, the way to prevent teenagers from having sex is to provide adequate information about promiscuity and proper reproduction. This can be started by opening discussions in the home environment.
When individuals get correct information from a young age, they will understand why they have to take care of themselves. Parents cannot supervise their children all day, especially with increasingly sophisticated technology, but if children are equipped with good knowledge, then they themselves will know how to protect themselves, including the ability to protect themselves from potential sexual crimes of any kind," concluded Kasandra.