Couples Stop Erections During Intimate Relations, Here Are 7 Things You Need To Do
Illustration of things that need to be done when your partner stops having an erection (Freepik/stefamerpic)

YOGYAKARTA This shocking situation, when a couple stops having an erection in the middle of an intimate relationship, needs to be responded to wisely. Instead of putting up a disappointed face, it is better to pay a warm attention to maintaining emotional intimacy. This incident may not be a strange thing. But it is a sensitive issue that needs to be handled together. For this reason, this needs to be done when your partner stops having an erection in the middle of a moment of love.

Assuming it's very risky, it's important to remember that it's not your fault if he loses his erection. So you shouldn't make scenarios in your head. Your partner if you experience it, may also feel very embarrassed. Sometimes this happens naturally, but don't make it a specific reason.

No matter how passionate you are about having sex, it's important to remember not to get angry when experiencing it. Launching All Women's Talk, Monday, January 15, you can fully believe that your partner is feeling embarrassed. That is, it is important to stay kind and calm when experiencing it.

If you know the cause of the loss of an erection, you may have the opportunity to change the situation. It also opens up the possibility that you will help your partner perform better. The common cause of loss of an erection during sex, including stress, nervousness, overweight, nervousness, or drunkness. So it's important to discuss with your partner and try to identify the cause.

Quit an erection during sex does not always reflect your male partner's romantic feelings for you. But in reality, it could be that he gets bored with monotonous sexual routines. If you think that a predictable sex life is related to your partner's declining libido, then it's time to try new things.

Letting topics be this kind of personal can have a bad impact. Then encourage your partner to talk about what he is experiencing. By reducing the burden on his shoulders a little bit, maybe we can overcome this problem together.

6. Visit the doctor together

If the problem is serious enough to require a doctor's visit, offer yourself to accompany him to get support. Depending on your partner's personality, he may not want the problem to be serious but make sure he knows you are paying attention in difficult times. This makes your partner know that you don't lose interest just because of sexual problems that only last for a while.

Sex penetration is just a part of sexual experience. So, take the time to tell your partner that he doesn't need to feel too much and can please you in many other ways. It's important to maintain the level of intimacy when you try to solve this problem, because it keeps you bound and will keep your partner in touch.

That's what needs to be done when your partner stops having an erection in the midst of sexual intercourse. If you have experienced it, it is important to recognize the cause. If it lasts a long time, it is important to check with a doctor.


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