5 Things Happy Couples Do

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JAKARTA - Every couple must have their own way to create a lasting and harmonious relationship. Given that uniting two different heads is complicated, sometimes love tips and tricks may not be suitable for everyone.

Some couples are equally stubborn. One is serious, one is relaxed. One is cool, one is romantic. There is one who likes to regulate, one is obedient. Having an agreement that benefits both parties is an important point in a relationship.

But some habits are often carried out by happy couples and have harmonious relationships. Simple, but the impact can be big. Hopefully, the following VOI tips are suitable for you and your partner.

Be a good listener

Spouses are usually the first to be contacted to tell stories, complain, and often get scolded even though they have nothing to do with it. It is very important to learn to be a good listener to make your partner comfortable and open. Don't be emotional if he complains until he gets angry. Just listen carefully and give advice when necessary.

It sucks when your partner is upset, even we are the ones who get scolded. But maybe it's his way of venting his emotions. Simply position yourself as a listener. After all, after talking at length, he became more relieved and relaxed again.

Have time alone

Happy couples usually give time to be alone. You don't have to be alone all the time. Meeting quality is more important than quantity. Instead of meeting often but both busy with gadgets, it's better to reduce the intensity. Once we meet, we can talk at length and let go of longing.

There are times when you and he also need some alone time. The time may be used for resting, watching movies, exercising, doing hobbies at home, playing with friends, traveling alone, and everything that is usually done without a partner. there is no need to feel unappreciated or to be invited to anything. Give a little freedom because this is also good for the relationship.

Always want better

You and he can be a happy couple when both have the desire to continue to be better. Try to be more sensitive, find out what your partner likes or dislikes, don't repeat mistakes, learn to compromise even though you finally have to give in, learn more effective communication, learn to manage emotions, and how to solve problems without drama.

Doing something your partner likes

Relationships will be happier when you and he often do things that their partner likes. For example, make food, accompany him when he does his hobby, take him to a place he likes, wear clothes he likes, use his gifts, and do simple things that please your partner. But remember, only do things you don't have to do!

Show affection

It's very important to show your love for your partner. For those who are uncomfortable, there's no need to say I love you every time. You can show it in other ways, for example giving attention and care, keeping promises, giving small gifts that make him happy, accompanying him, introducing him to friends or family, and showing a sense of pride in your togetherness.