JAKARTA – In a husband and wife relationship, experts distinguish between pleasure and orgasm. Orgasm is like a menu of food. While enjoyment is the entire food menu, from appetizers to desserts.
A 2019 study, reported by Healthline, published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior defines a bad orgasm. Bad orgasms that occur during consensual sex have a negative impact on relationships, sexuality, and/or psychological health.
According to Marla Renee Stewart, sexologist and co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay: Techniques and Strategies for Mind-Blowing Sex (Ultimate Guide Series) defines bad orgasms as those experienced without consent or consent.
These orgasms are also known as dysorgasmia or orgasms that cause physical pain.
"If someone's physical experience of orgasm triggers shame, is linked to a traumatic experience, or feels so vulnerable that it makes them self-conscious afterward, it can be a complicated and unpleasant experience," says Aida Manduley, LSCW.
Manduley further explained that clinically, orgasm refers to a specific moment in which there is a release of tension and energy, muscle contractions (especially in the genital area), and an increased heart rate.
But in addition to having bad orgasms affect relationships as well as psychological health, there are many misconceptions about orgasms. Mandulay provides explanations to clarify understanding. That when a partner does not orgasm, the ego will be hurt.
Negative reactions will emerge and create more pressure on partners to feel orgasm the next time they have sex. This indirectly makes orgasm a measure of the success of the sexual experience.
"Want to have an orgasm is not a bad thing," says Manduley.
But when orgasm becomes the sole focus of sex, it's a bad thing. Why so? Because the pressure to 'achieve' orgasm often comes at the expense of things like safety, mutual respect, connection, intimacy, and pleasure.
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