Couples Must Know, Here Are 8 Nonverbal Languages From Sexual Interest

Illustration of nonverbal language from sexual attraction (Freepic/Drazen.Zigic)

YOGYAKARTA For two people who are paired, language is not always spoken but body-fed. This is known as body language which has certain intentions. In the sexual aspect, your partner is sometimes embarrassed or hesitant to reveal. Therefore, recognize the nonverbal language of sexual attraction that you catch from your partner.

Looking at the old partner is usually a sign of interest. Like a tit for tat, if you have a response to each other's eye contact, this can increase enthusiasm. Usually stuck for a while, then limbish. Long eyes, according to the author of the Journal of Nonverbal Behavior, Ronald E. Riggio, Ph.D., show that there is interest and desire to connect.

Sitting face-to-face with your interlocutor talking, turning your body forward, eyes are wide open, with arms open, hinting that your partner wants to share more intimately. Sometimes these signs are referred to as freshness.

When you are sexually attracted to someone, the tongue can become more active, and the lips become more often humid. Kissing the lips slowly can be a sign of intentional and clear seduction.

A clearer signal that someone teases you involves touching yourself, such as a soft touch or a sweep on the lips and/or the breasts.

Body language works naturally which is sometimes not fully realized. If you and your partner sit together with a few feet to touch or rest on one of them, this is a sign of seduction.

Although we often smile when we interact with other people we like, when we are sexually attracted to someone, the level of smile tends to increase. In addition, it tends to smile more with an open mouth when someone is sexually attracted.

When talking to your partner, recognize the movement of his head. If he nodded agreeing with the nod of his head more, it was a sign that he was wooing and interested in sexual aspects.

If you don't see it directly, it could be that your partner is just looking. Launching Psychology Today, Monday, July 3, looking at your partner for a long time, especially your body, is a sign of sexual attraction.

In Riggio's research, it was found that there were people who looked good at wooing and spreading the signs above. But there are also those who try to show sexual attraction but describe negative emotions and are not too tempting. So, which one do you often catch from your partner? Well, if your partner expresses negative emotions to invite sex, try to start practicing assertive sexual communication so that the relationship is healthier.