Widowed Three Times, Risty Tagor: It Was Hard At First, Got Used To It

Risty Tagor (Photo: Savic Rabos, DI: Raga/VOI)

JAKARTA - Risty Tagor has become a widow for the third time. Especially for the third marriage, Risty never announced who her husband was. His marriage only opened when he announced his third child. Shortly after, she announced that she was widowed again.

The woman whose full name is Ariestia Ramadhany Tagor Harahap admitted that her life is currently going well and normally as usual. Risty Tagor has absolutely no problem being a single parent forever.

"Because many people who get old are still single moms, their husbands die or they are separated and they are still alive," said Risty Tagor, quoted from the YouTube channel, Tuesday, August 9.

His children are used to living without a father in their lives. Although divorced, he did not block access from the children's father to meet.

"The children are also used to it. It means that everything is fine, the children will understand because I have a good relationship with all the family. Indeed, all of them are brothers," said Risty.

Risty admits that early widowhood was a difficult adjustment process. She had to get used to living without a husband.

"It might be hard at first but in the end I see them (the kids) accept all my flaws and I don't demand perfection from them, so it's their strength," he said.

However, Risty Tagor does not deny that there is a sense of trauma after three failed attempts to build a household ark.

"For example, if we are traumatized by something, yes. What makes us traumatized is that everyone we know has a time when they understand us, but when we know each other, it's not necessarily like that," said Risty Tagor.

"Now I'm up to God alone, focus on the children," he added.