YOGYAKARTA - Have you ever felt restless, restless, or even labored to feel dragged? It could be, without realizing it, giving or talking about the bads of others have become part of our daily lives.
The impact of grabah is not only detrimental to the people discussed, but also to pollute our own hearts to hinder the smoothness of sustenance. This article will thoroughly explore how to avoid ghibah so that the heart is always peaceful and sustenance flows smoothly.
Islam strictly prohibits backbiting. Reporting from the NU Online page, Allah SWT trusts in the Qur'an Surah Al-Hujurat verse 12:
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"O you people who believe, stay away from most of the prejudices, because in fact part of prejudice is a sin and don't you look for other people's mistakes and disgrace and don't you gossip about others. Does someone from you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? So of course you are disgusted at him. (Therefore, stay away from these prohibitions) and be wary of Allah. Indeed, Allah is the Recipient of Repentance, Most Merciful."
The paragraph above, according to the history of Ibnu Mundzir from Ibnu Juraij, is down because of the case of Salman al-Farisi who likes to sleep and snoring after eating, and some who gossip him. This confirms that telling the disgrace of others is a forbidden act.
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In line with the words of Allah, the Prophet SAW also strictly forbade this act. He said in the history of Imam Bukhari:
"Be aware of your prejudices, because prejudice is the most lying expression. And don't look for other people's disgrace, don't spread hatred and be you brothers."
Reporting from the NU Online page, Imam Al-Ghazali in the book Ihya Ulumuddin clearly explains how negative thoughts can be the gateway to the backbiter.
Al-Ghazali menyatakan, jika tiba-tiba terlintas pemikiran buruk tentang seseorang di hati kita, sebenarnya itu adalah kobuhan satan. Setan sebagai kota yang paling kehitinya, sengaja mempiki hal tersebut untuk memilayal kita. Oleh karena itu, manusia harus mendustkan perintinatan tersebut.
Furthermore, Al-Ghazali emphasized that it is not allowed to justify the devil or his whispers, because it will drag humans to damage and seem to justify deviant acts.
Al-Ghazali teaches Muslims to always be aware of negative whispers in the heart. By recognizing and suppressing demons' whispers, and always doing tabayyun. Therefore, we can protect our hearts from prejudice and avoid harmful acts of backbiting.
Meanwhile, the caretaker of the Putri Al-Ihsan Lirboyo Islamic Boarding School in Kediri, Ning Imaz Fatimatuz Zahra, shared a method to reduce the habit of backbiting, namely by regularly reading personal development books and philosophy. According to him, reading activities can activate brain function.
Ning Imaz explained that someone does not need to be too critical of other people's affairs. A person must really know which business and which one is not. Otherwise, it is not a realm for comment.
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Thus, a person will avoid ghibah because of his positive thoughts, which in turn will attract positive people and create a positive environment as well.
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