JAKARTA - During this time, you may feel that everyone who has a partner is always happy and never lonely. In fact, loneliness and partners have nothing to do.
Everyone can feel lonely, including those who have a partner. On the one hand, it may look fine and happy with your partner. But on the other hand that people do not know, loneliness can arise. How could that be?
Here are some reasons why even people with partners can feel lonely.
Long distance relationshipSome couples in long distance relationships often experience loneliness. Understandably, couples who are far away, rarely see each other, maybe communication is not smooth. When you need a partner, maybe he can't be there. If it happens often, you will feel lonely over time.
Not warm relationshipMeeting often and being close together is not a guarantee that you will not be lonely. Because, when the relationship feels less warm, slowly you and your partner feel distant and cold. Be there a feeling of loneliness even though the relationship feels fine.
Couple not as expectedThere are times when you have high expectations about your partner. Want a partner like this, like that. The reality turned out to be far from expectations. Usually this is what makes people still survive but do not feel a harmonious relationship. In the end, you feel lonely.
Feeling unhappyCan a person with a partner be unhappy? Very possible. The causes can vary, for example, being in a forced relationship, feeling uncomfortable, getting less attention and affection, many problems, toxic relationships, but not being able to break up.
Comparing relationships with othersFeelings of loneliness can also arise if you often compare your partner or relationship with other people. The impression is that other couples out there look happier, more exciting, romantic, and so on. You don't even know what their real relationship is.
Feelings like this can make yourself unhappy and expect more things from what you have.
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