4 Reasons Why You Always Fail In Serious Relationships

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JAKARTA - Not everyone is lucky enough when it comes to romance. Even though I have tried many times, it always seems to fail again and again for various reasons. Then you are confused yourself why love stories always run aground in the middle of the road.

Well, for those who always fail in love relationships, maybe there are several reasons that unconsciously happen to you. About anything?

Feeling unhappy with yourself

There is truth in the saying you have to be happy first before making others happy. After all, romance is not always full of happiness. There are times when you will fight, disagree, and your partner is being annoying.

So even having a partner doesn't make you happy because basically you are not happy with yourself. This can make your relationship fail again because you feel there is no satisfactory partner. Know that happiness comes from yourself and it's your job to make yourself happy, not other people including your partner.

Selfish

Even though your partner is a special person, in reality he or she can't devote his whole life to you. Especially considering the responsibilities as an adult are so many, so every aspect has its own portion, including spouse, family, career, and personal ambitions. When you're still thinking about yourself, it's no wonder the relationship ran aground again in the middle of the road.

possessive

When you have a partner, you feel entitled to arrange things to your liking. In fact, not many people want to just obey when their personal life is also disturbed. When you want to have a serious and long-term relationship, this possessive habit will make it difficult for yourself because your partner will feel uncomfortable, distrusted, and not free.

Haven't met the right person yet

If relationships often fail, you may not have met the right partner. When you're happy, loving yourself, and making peace with your past, but still having trouble finding the right partner, it's possible that you haven't met your soul mate yet and you have to be patient until you meet the right person.