JAKARTA - Actress and wife of the Deputy Governor of East Java, Arumi Bachsin, shared a deep reflection on the meaning of being a mother. According to him, this role often makes a woman forget to prioritize herself.
"When we become new mothers, we understand what it is like to be a mother," said Arumi in South Jakarta, Monday, December 22.
"If the mother is not careful, the mother is the last person who thinks about herself," he continued.
He highlighted how endless household chores can be a mental burden in itself.
"The dishes we wash today will be washed again tomorrow morning," he said.
Therefore, Arumi emphasized how important the mental health and happiness of a mother is. For him, this is something that must be fought for, not only by the family but also by the mother herself.
"Because in the soul of a happy woman, who is happy, there is an overflowing love for her family," he explained.
He also advised all women, both those who have become mothers and those who have not, not to forget to love themselves. Giving space for yourself to develop is the key to being able to give your family a whole love.
Her experience as a mother also increased her sympathy for other women. She realized that social demands for women do not recognize economic status or age.
"Women in almost every phase of their lives have social demands that must be met," he said.
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