JAKARTA - Actor Jourdy Pranata returns to acting in the latest romantic comedy film, Yakin Nikah. Through this film, the actor who was born on January 2 felt the closeness between his character and himself.
The 31-year-old actor plays Gerry, Niken's ex-lover (played by Enzy Storia). The character who is quite close has little in common with him so it is easier for him to act.
Characterically, he is impulsive, fun, continues to have an issue commitment because it reflects his parents' life. Gerry is arguably a broken home, his mother's father has divorced from high school, so he has absorbed the process for him to relate to his relationship since the process. That's why there is impulsiveness, there is a fear of commitment but unfortunately, he is loyal, "Jourdy Pranata's story about his character to VOI some time ago.
At the age of three heads, Jourdy said that he still felt far from the word marriage. The focus is currently making a living and continuing to act in various projects. This is proven because in the last three years, he has appeared in five films released every year.
This year alone, at least six films have been shown in theaters. Interestingly, three of these films are related to marriage.
"Initially I thought that the matter of marriage was still like 'Hah, it's still a long time' so it's been a light thing, but since studying and diving in Gerry, it seems more and more convinced. Oh, it turns out that marriage is not an easy decision, there are no more important factors unless it emerges from within yourself because that's what Gerry is experiencing, "he explained linking the character.
"So the marriage factor is not from outside, not from parents, friends, social, religion, everything is not from yourself," he said.
The closeness was also felt to a similar but unequal background. In the film directed by Pritagita Ariaa negara, Gerry's character is told to live with his mother because he is separated from his father. In the real world, Jourdy lived with his mother after his father died.
"So what I learned and told me when I talked about Gerry, how did he prioritize his parents, which is only one and how did Gerry do it because if there was only one, I would prioritize my mother. But at this age, I also want to get married but I want to work, so I have to listen to which one. Well, that's what I see in my life too, I prioritize my mother but my mother is like Come on, where is the match? while it's still fun to work but we know this demand arises from the people we love, which we prioritize, but does it make a Jourdy a marriage tomorrow? Yes, not really! " he said enthusiastic.
"It's very reflection because it's at the same age and life stage, actually, it's just a matter of priority differences and point of view actually," continued the man of Minangkabau descent.
Speaking of marriage, several years the term waithood (wait + adulthood) has begun to be echoed. Launching UNDP, this term refers to the momentum of the millennial generation delaying marriage to marry at a more mature age. If previously married young, the waitinghood phenomenon turned this around.
As a result, currently the idea of getting married under the 30s is not the main solution and perpetuates that getting married over 30s is still seen as a decent choice. Jourdy Pranata also feels that there is no problem at his current age, he is still focused on building his career.
"I actually see that marriage is a process we find ourselves, the process we find is readiness or not, so if we come back again, if it's based on the demands, it doesn't seem like that's what we have to do to make a marriage decision. I think nowadays all children my age or above a little or a little literate will be," said Jourdy.
What our happiness must be heard when we get married, what dreams we have written have checked or everything is mentally, physically, the economy is all ready, it looks like people are literate about it, so I prioritize my happiness. Then everyone is like (Eurmur) you will be rotten later, that's my choice! he said again.
Talking about his film project this year, Jourdy just realized that he plays a lot of films about getting married. Not intentional, it turns out that he feels that at his age he is now more trusted to play in adult films.
"If I take the project to see what I can give for this project, maybe this year it's not a coincidence but in the end it is a reflection of a Jourdy who is already literate and has started to see the wedding getting closer. Maybe in my house, who is now bolder because it has been a phase, at the age of 25, I didn't think I dared to take it because I didn't relate at all, I focused on it," said Jourdy Pranata.
"In the past, at the age of 25, 26 was the role of the father of 1. I don't think the role of the father of 1 child is Jour, but the range is even more open because physically it has fulfilled even though I am even more happy to get the character of high school students. The more happy the range is wider and I never city it, it's even nice if there is still a project to be a child, wow, it means I'm still young! Physically still believable, "he explained.
At the press conference, Jourdy Pranata also loudly expressed his belief to get married. Thanks to talking to experienced actors, he began to open up even though he honestly admitted that he was skeptical of building a household. However, at least today that belief is starting to grow.
"Is there as small as I feel like I'm ready? It means that the skepticism has been reduced by Jour, you have to try to open it a little bit, focus on that way, maybe no one will know, next year or five years you will experience that phase," the story again.
I believe that marriage also makes us a better person. So for example there will be an opportunity or a feeling, is there ready now that's being fined! Because so far it has not been fined because so far What is it? There is no career yet, yes maybe there is but a little . Maybe ta'aruf, maybe matched up," concluded Jourdy Pranata.
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