Tips For Facing Family Members Who Are Not Sefrequency During Eid

Family gathering moments can sometimes make it uncomfortable. (PHOTO: Pexels/Rdne Stock Project)

JAKARTA - Lebaran is a moment to gather with extended families. However, family gathering moments can sometimes make it uncomfortable and disturbed if you meet family members who are not as frequent or have differences when talking or when doing activities together.

This must be overcome so as not to tire yourself of the special moment. Here are some ways to deal with family members who are not as frequent as during Eid, quoted from Psychology Today.

1. Remember different interests with other people doesn't make you bad

If you talk to family members or other people who have different interests, it's a normal thing. Remember that different interests with other people doesn't make you a bad person.

So you should tell me the reason you like something without forcing other people to have the same mindset. It's better to be honest about something you like so you don't get tired of lying and try to please others.

2. Good control of emotions

Talking to people who are not as frequent can indeed increase emotions in oneself. Therefore, learn to control your emotions well so as not to hurt your own feelings or others.

Some of the ways to properly control emotions are to remain calm, listen to music, or do your own activities that you like.

3. Choose the right communication with that person

When you are faced with family members talking about things or inviting you to do things you don't like, refuse in a good way. Make sure you convey your refusal politely.

Don't let the other person be offended by your polite and disrespectful delivery. One way you can say "Thank you for the invitation, but I'm sorry I can't come because there are plans for other activities and visiting other families".