How To Meluluhkan Hati Orang Tua Yang Keras Dengan Pendekatan Intens

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YOGYAKARTA - Having stubborn parents is indeed a challenge in itself. Differences of opinion and views often trigger conflict. So how to break the hearts of parents who are tough?

However, don't give up! There are some tips and ways that you can try to break the hearts of parents and build a more harmonious relationship.

A fast-paced life and individualism are factors that make many people close their hearts. As a result, the ability to feel empathy, affection, and sadness of others is decreasing.

In addition, in the modern era, people become more focused on themselves and care less about their social environment. This condition has an impact on the quality of human relations and makes individuals feel isolated and lonely.

Reporting from the Neufeld Institute, according to Gordon Neufeld the heart can only be softened by growing a safe and caring bond with others.

To that end, a relationship is needed that offers someone a promise of security, warmth, and dependence. The association is that bidders face too much separation and injury.

Please note, human hearts will spontaneously recover and experience feelings of vulnerability again when emotional defenses are no longer needed. But what everyone needs the most is a guard of their hearts.

For example, as a ten-year-old said to his mother, "I don't know what it's like, Mama, but when I talk to you I feel very comfortable."

Before continuing, also read the article that discusses Knowing All Kinds of Trauma, Causes, And Bad Impacts

Building A Deep Emotional Connection

Some of the ways below will discuss the importance of building a strong relationship to be able to understand and help others, especially children and parents in exploring their emotions.

To be able to understand a person's feelings, we need to create a safe and comfortable environment. This can start from simple things such as reading story books with family or inviting them to watch movies with emotional themes.

The key is to show that we care and are open to listening to whatever they feel. That way, they will feel more comfortable sharing their deepest feelings.

A strong bond between parents and children acts as a protector for the heart. When parents feel safe and loved, they will more easily overcome the various emotional challenges they face.

To prevent parents from building an emotional defensive wall, we need to create an environment free from shame and judgment. This means avoiding situations that can make them feel depressed or injured, such as bullying or excessive criticism.

We also need to reconsider our style of communication and choose a gentler and more loving method.

Please note, building a deep emotional connection with parents requires patience, empathy, and commitment. By creating a safe and loving environment, we can help them be healthier and happier.

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