Aimless To Reach Orgasm, Slow Sex Focuses On Increasing Sexual Experience

Illustration of slow sex focuses on increasing the sexual experience of not aiming to achieve orgasm (Freepic)

YOGYAKARTA Orgasm is one of the sizes of a person getting a satisfying sexual experience. But under certain preferences, a meditative sexual experience rooted in tantric sex is chosen. Called slow sex, because the stages are slow and not in a hurry.

Slow sex is about slowing down the sexual experience, by doing all its activities at a gentle, careful, and in no hurry to reach orgasm. Even the size is not an orgasm in a pleasant sexual experience. But rather experience and enjoy every stage as a whole.

Conventionally, sex is seen as a penetration activity, in which a penis enters the vagina. While slow sex is about embracing the concept of sex that goes beyond penetration. This sexual experience is experienced by two people who initiate and have consent to have sex. Sexual relations in this context, conveyed with gaze, explicit statements, foreplay, or sexual contact. This gives everyone involved time to slow down and explore each other. That way, there is no pressure, reduces anxiety, and explores the pleasure of two people agreeing to have sex.

Slow sex emphasizes foreplay rather than penetration. It can also penetrate, but this preference avoids a linear approach. For example, from foreplay it always continues to penetrate. In slow sex, it can be that once foreplay is continued foreplay with preferences or other activities, it is not only penetration.

Slow sex does not limit linear order, it embraces dynamic preferences. For example, doubling foreplay activities to gain each other's body and sexual experience. Activities, for example with sensual massages, erotic showers, to other more holistic experiences are carried out during foreplay. In principle, slow sex delays penetration which is considered to increase anticipation and passion.

The human body has a number of sensitive zone points. On understanding in general, sex focuses on penetration and does not even realize that it does not explore sexual pleasure points for stimulation. For example, clitoris, nipples, or other parts such as waists, thighs, necks, to the lower back. With slow sex, it allows couples to explore the body and better awareness and sexual satisfaction.

As mentioned above, slow sex is rooted in tantra sex. Launching biird., Wednesday, November 13, this preference uses meditation and yoga to enhance sexual and orgasm experiences. Although it doesn't have to meditate, it takes the principle of full awareness dynamically in the sexual experience.

Slow sex is also useful in reducing the gap in orgasm between women and men. It is important to know, in studies it shows that women need 18 minutes to reach orgasm while men within 5 minutes. With slow sex, sexual experience can last more than penetration activity. In addition, slow sex also helps people who experience erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and other orgasm-related problems. Because this preference frees a person from orgasm pressure, which can also increase the chances of getting an orgasm better.