Be Calm In Everyday Life, Making Romantic Relations More Fun

Illustration fosters romantic relationships by being calm in everyday life (Freepik)

YOGYAKARTA "Be calm when doing activities seems easier than when you have to complete many tasks. But it becomes a challenge as well as being able to have a positive effect on relationships, especially in pairs.

According to a survey conducted by the Wellbeing for Planet Earth (WPE) Foundation, 72 percent of adults say they prefer to live a quiet life than fun. While the other 16 percent, say otherwise. A professor author of Philosophy of Emotion, Aaron Ben-Ze ev, Ph.D., calm is actually related to creating life more fun and prosperous.

According to Ben-Zeev, in a romantic relationship it is most enjoyable to characterize the existence of dynamic calm. A happy romantic relationship, is a state of intense enthusiasm. This emotion is short-lived, because every time there is no new surprise or something and makes each other enthusiastic, the flames of love dim out and even extinguished. Different when romantic relationships take advantage of dynamic calm.

Calmness refers to the absence of legitimacy, tension, pressure, or disturbance. When calm, it means that storms and strong winds will not occur in time. Peace also refers to positive aspects that increase development. That means, calm in dealing with positive circumstances including relaxation and patience.

Relaxation is a state of calm without anxiety or anxiety. Which is very important in love and sexuality. Because feeling stress and anxiety is dangerous for love and sex. Patience, a person's ability to 'waiting' things without feeling frustrated or upset. Calmness, in contrast to indifference or reduced interest.

Calmness requires acceptance, involves trust, and is free from tensions. Launching Psychology Today, Wednesday, September 25, acceptance means not trying to control things beyond our control. For example, controlling the lives of loved ones by changing their behavior as we would like. Peace also opens up the possibility of a long-lasting romantic relationship. Perhaps this aspect, calmness, is often not noticed. But it can be an important component in establishing a more enjoyable romantic relationship.