JAKARTA - Ayu Ting Ting uploaded a video clarifying the reasons for the cancellation of the marriage with Adit Jayusman on the YouTube channel Qiss You TV on Sunday, February 14. Ayu reiterated that the reason for her marriage was not because the dowry was too big.
"I canceled the wedding, he said, because the dowry was large, I have to explain, I have to emphasize that this is not true at all," said Ayu.
Ayu explained that if the dowry was the reason, of course the wedding preparations would not be done in a big way. "If we use common sense, logically, dowry and submission must be discussed at the beginning, before moving further into the marriage ladder. And that too is definitely agreed upon by both parties. So it seems impossible because of the big dowry issue," he said.
Although he did not clearly state the reason for the cancellation of the marriage, Ayu gave a signal that the blessing of the Adit family had not yet been pocketed. Ayu implicitly reveals that the root of the problem is Ayu and Adit's family who cannot be united.
"" Back to what I always say, all back to Allah. If we are not yet a match, we cannot force it. Marriage in our culture is not just a marriage of two individuals but a marriage of two large families. In it there is our obligation to be able to harmonize with each other. If that doesn't go well, it will be difficult in the future, "said Ayu.
Ayu said that her marriage was canceled on February 2. "That's my original decision, I have nothing to do with anyone. I made this decision on Tuesday, February 2, 2021 and he has accepted my decision sincerely," he said.
Even though she failed to get married, Ayu admitted that she had no regrets. "I do not regret it, instead I am grateful for the togetherness of many wisdoms. I have received many messages from Allah. Maybe this is a test from Allah so that I can be stronger, legowo, learn sincerity and God willing, blessings for me. I am worried and attentive, "said Ayu Ting Ting.
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