The Most Effective Flirting Way To Melt A Crush's Heart, How?

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JAKARTA - One of the tricks that can be used to get your idol's heart is flirting. Unfortunately, not all women are given the ability to flirt. You need to practice your flirting skills by recognizing which things tend to work and which ones have the potential to fail to become a great seducer.

Want to know what things you have to do to make flirting work? Let's look at the following methods:

Relax and Smile

Try to relax by taking deep breaths and thinking pleasant thoughts. That way, a positive aura will appear and spread to everyone around you. Emitting positive energy will also make you more confident about starting a conversation. Sure, he will definitely be amazed to see good energy radiating from within you.

Eye contact

You can learn flirting by making eye contact. Try to make eye contact when you have a chance to chat with him. By making eye contact, he will feel appreciated and will know that you are interested in the conversation.

Give him a fixed gaze, by occasionally shifting his gaze to his shoulders or chest, then look back at his eyes. If you can do this well, there is a good chance that the adage 'from the eyes down to the heart' will work.

Make Curious

One of the most effective flirting methods is to make your crush curious. You can make him curious by saying subtle seductive sentences or you can accidentally touch him. For example, giving compliments about how attractive he looks today.

Sure, your crush will immediately be curious about your attitude. See, if he's interested, you will definitely be chased. But remember! Just do this flirting with people you really like. If you make everyone curious, it might end up getting you into trouble later.

Ask Questions

The way to learn flirting is by asking questions to the crush. Most men like to be asked about their personal opinions. This time ask him a question while teasing him. For example, ask his opinion whether a short haircut suits you or not while showing your neckline. He will definitely be surprised but most likely even like your action.

Don't Give Crunchy Jokes

It's no secret that compliments and cheesy or loud jokes make people feel uncomfortable. Likewise sentences of sexual or harassing tone. You must avoid it, yes. Be sincere and most importantly, be yourself.

Go Immediately If the Flirting Technique Doesn't Work

If the flirting technique doesn't work, then immediately leave your crush. Don't let the conversation drag on if you already 'smell' the awkwardness or silence between the two of you. Better to leave politely and leave the conversation.