YOGYAKARTA – Each type of sexual arousal has a different stimulation mechanism to get sexual satisfaction. Therefore, you and your partner need to recognize each other.

According to relationship and sex therapist Petra Zebroff, Ph.D., arousal is the pathway by which you become aroused, which requires knowing which of the five types of arousal you or your partner have. The following is an explanation of the five types of sexual arousal and how to stimulate them.

1. Sensuality

Someone who has a sensualist type of passion, needs to be stimulated using the five senses. For example, think about lavender or vanilla room scents. You can also add sound, soft bed linen, even music that accompanies it. Sensualist passion increases slowly and slowly, it cannot be rushed. They love erotic touch, sexy voices and kisses.

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Illustration of types of sexual arousal (Freepik/senivpetro)

2. Behaviorist

Behaviorists have unique tastes and they know exactly what turns them on. Whether it's a new position, role play, dominance, or something else that excites them. Usually, they require imagination and thinking about the sex act.

3. Intimate

The intimate arousal type, requires being really close to their partner to feel aroused. They need emotional closeness and like deep discussions with their partner. Sex for owners of intimate passion types wants to combine body and soul. When in bed, they tend to give in with the aim of making sure their partner is excited and satisfied.

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Illustration of types of sexual arousal (Freepik/Racool_studio)

4. Attractor

As attractors, they get aroused when their partner wants them to. They like to dress up to look sexy before they are ready to have sex. For attractor couples, it is necessary to give praise so that it heats up quickly. You can also give lingerie gifts as a form of support.

5. Equalist

Owners of the equalist passion type get sexual arousal from the four types mentioned above, reported by Well+Good, Monday, March 20. They can feel the orgasm after their partners feel hot. They also like the idea of ​​role play. It can also be stimulated by sensory things, such as smell, temperature, sound, and sight.

Those are the five types of sexual arousal and how to stimulate to get sexual satisfaction. For everyone who is in a pair, it is necessary to know the type of passion of each. Because then, sex life will be more fun and satisfying.


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