YOGYAKARTA According to experts, problems that are not resolved are related to the emotional condition of someone experiencing them. Sometimes, other people or partners feel there is a problem, but you feel there is nothing to solve so that they delay finding a way out. Have you ever felt this?
It is inevitable that life is indeed tested with problems. The contents of the problem continue to change, but the approach and solution methods are often determined by perspective and emotional conditions. Not infrequently, emotional conditions prevent a person from moving forward in solving problems. So why can solving problems be hindered so that it doesn't make you run out? This is the reason as well as the solution according to Robert Taibbi, LSCW., an experienced clinical psychologist.
If you are different from your partner, or partner, of course, how to respond to an event will have a different approach. Likewise, when the event is actually a problem and needs to be resolved immediately, but you feel it's not a problem.
The solution suggested by Taibbi was reported by Psychology Today, Wednesday, January 18, someone needs to be sensitive to partner concerns. This is not a matter of who needs to give in, but how to share understanding. So that whether or not the problem is, both parties can compromise to find a middle way from different perspectives.
Do you want to achieve a specific goal but many lists of jobs to complete? This can be even more complicated if you don't make priority lists. If you need help, ask someone to help you improve your goals and make work easier.
Critical to yourself puts pressure on solving problems and doing it right. In line with that, the pride of the lace also plays a role in the firmness to solve the problem. Taibbi's advice, instead of allowing critical voices from within, is better to take small steps towards your goals.
Problems often come when you have a plan for unrealistic expectations. For example, you and your partner want to save and save at the end of the month. But only half a month is almost drained. So, it is necessary to re-examine your financial plans. Create real solutions that are easy and easy to practice in everyday life. If Taibbi's advice, change behavior, make a detailed and realistic plan.
In solving problems, you can ask for support from those closest to you. But take into account the help you need. This is a way to get the problem right.
It's important to understand, the biggest lesson when facing problems is how you learn to run a life. Taibbi's message, better proactive instead of reactive. Besides, it's also important to realize what's in the way you solve the problem.
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