JAKARTA - Ethics expert Anna Bey provides important tips for single women. This has to do with what they shouldn't talk about when looking for a relationship.

This woman from Sweden regularly shares guides on how to be an elegant young woman on her School of Affluence YouTube channel.

In one of her clips, she details 10 tips that no elegant woman should say - including topics like sex and football.

The 33-year-old expert said: "Elegant women never say they are going to the toilet, the toilet, or any business that has to be done behind closed doors.

"So if you have to go, you just have to excuse me."

He also pointed out that elegant women will never demand anything and if necessary, you should say "please" and "thank you."

"A graceful woman will never 'give me this', you just said, can you give me this please?" Anna gave an example.

"Don't forget please, thank you."

Then he progressed to the list of "taboo" topics. Anna advises women to avoid talking about these things with men.

"Don't talk about sex, politics, disease, remember I mentioned cancer," Anna explained.

"Don't talk about these things or any kind of sensitive subject that can really irritate people," he continued.

"Even things like football teams, religion, or unpopular opinions you might have."

Asking sensitive topics about people's work and income will make you seem too nosy, Anna insists.

Said the ethicist, an elegant woman will never demand anything and if necessary (Unsplash)

Instead, she said: "Leave the men open if they want to share that information."

This ethicist also advises avoiding "asking how much it costs, how much people earn, anything to do with money."

Elegant women also never talk about sex.

She said: "When women started talking about how they needed sex, how they wanted sex. I just really thought it was very inappropriate and it also looked really aggressive."


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