Kepo Is Not Good, Here Are 5 Hows To Stop Interming Other People's Affairs

Illustration (Priscilla du Preez/Unsplash)

JAKARTA - Sometimes someone loves kepo and takes care of other people's lives rather than taking care of their own lives. And eventually life becomes uneasy, feels worried, and compares itself with other people because they feel that the life they currently have is not as good as theirs. Of course kepo is okay, but don't overdo it to the point of taking time. Because in the end, you will be the one who will be harmed by these kepo habits.

If you want to stop taking care of other people's business, check out the following tips, launching Inspiring Tips, Wednesday, September 21.

Taking some free time can be a reason why a person can interfere in other people's business. If you are spending free time with people's lives, you should try to keep yourself busy. If you are bored, try playing games or exercising. If you are thirsty for entertainment, then watch movies or reality shows. Doing any activity during that time can keep your mind away from disturbing other people's lives.

Instead of focusing on people's lives, it's better to focus on improving your abilities. Maybe your intention to interfere in people's business could be good. But if those closest to you have shown their dislike for your intervention, then it's best to stop. Switch that energy to your own life.

There are times when interfering in other people's lives can be accepted, especially if the goal is to help that person or to prevent him from doing silly things. However, despite these intentions, you still have to ask for permission before stepping in. Before giving your opinion or suggestions, be polite to ask other people if you can express your thoughts. This will communicate a clear message to others that you respect their privacy. And you just want to offer help because you care.

It's the main reason why someone likes to interfere with other people's business. If you want to quit, then stay away from gossip. You certainly don't want people to talk behind you, do you? Doing this will not only help you stop making unwanted disturbances. But it also helps you grow into a more ethical and moral person.

Everyone has a guard wall which should be respected and not forced to enter arbitrarily. You can enter the wall only if other people open the gate of the wall. After all, you yourself have a wall that protects your secret privacy, trust, and interests. And of course, you don't want anyone to violate the barrier wall arbitrarily without permission.

In addition to using words, you can also interfere with other people's business through actions. So, it would be nice to think before acting. For example, before you throw away your children's toy collection in the hope that it can help them grow up, think about how this action will irritate children and violate their choices first. Thinking before acting will prevent you from making unnecessary and unsolicited interventions. As well as helping to avoid the consequences of impulsive and hasty decision-making.