JAKARTA – Satisfaction or pleasure in making love can be achieved through the involvement of two people who are active in bed. Including communicating what you like and your partner wants, as well as recognizing each other's body language when making love.

According to Denise Knowles, counselor and sex therapist, the single best way to know if a partner is enjoying or not is to ask. Also, pay attention to the following body language signs that your partner accepts and responds to stimuli and enjoys them.

1. Bring his body closer to your body

When your partner tilts or leans closer to you, says Denise, he's actually more likely to want to say 'give me more, I enjoy it'. Denise reminds, exploring positions and trying to respond in new ways will be more fun for your partner.

2. His facial expression is exaggerated

Denise continued, people make all kinds of facial expressions when they are having a lot of fun. Some people will wince looking like they are in pain, but it will probably vary from person to person.

Everyone is unique, if you really know your partner, you will know that their unique facial expressions are a sign that they are enjoying them.

3. Your partner flirts with you

"If your partner flirts with you, touches you and kisses you when you're not having sex, it's a sign they're happy with your sex life," Denise said.

Pleasure in the room affects how someone, including your partner, becomes more sensitive to you outside the room. This is a sign that he's also happy with your relationship as a whole.

4. The intonation of the voice changes to be fun

Everyone makes a different sound when making love. Denise explained, some people would sigh, giggle, snort, or scream. But there are also those who are silent and silent without making any sound.

Denise goes into more detail, silence isn't always a bad sign. This means that you need to really communicate with your partner to know that he or she is enjoying it.

Communication is very important especially in matters of love. Denise's message, never do anything sexually uncomfortable. Approval from your partner is very important, even when your partner seems doubtful, you should ask again to be clear.

5. Make eye contact

Eye contact during sex can be considered a good sign. This is a sign that you and your partner trust each other and are enjoying the experience. Although not always able to make eye contact, for example in certain positions, which does not allow for eye contact. If your partner lacks confidence, he may have a hard time looking you in the eye but that doesn't mean he doesn't enjoy it, adds Denise.

Orgasm is not the only measure of pleasure or not making love. Denise said, a man's satisfaction can be marked by ejaculation but it can also be dry orgasm. It also happens to women that orgasm is not the only measure but needs to be worked on.


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