How To Use Lubricants For Sex That Is More Comfortable And Satisfactory

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JAKARTA - Lubricants are an important part of sexual activities with partners. Lubricants can help increase comfort and satisfaction when having sex, especially in women.

By using lubricants, it can reduce the risk of dangerous friction during sex. Lubricants also help reduce the risk of condoms leaking, so the risk of sexually transmitted infection (IMS) can be avoided.

"The lubricant lowers the friction. When more lubricants are used with condoms, sexual intercourse can also look more natural. Ejaculation can also be delayed by lubrication," said obstetric consultant Dr. Surbhi Siddahartha, quoted from Healthshots, on Wednesday, October 1, 2025.

"In addition, lubrication reduces the possibility of condoms breaking or releasing, increasing your protection against sexually transmitted infections (IMS) such as HIV," he added.

However, in using lubricants, it is necessary to pay attention to the steps taken properly, so that the benefits are obtained optimally. There are several ways to use lubricants during sexual intercourse.

- First, lubricants should not be given to the genitals directly. So put a little first in your hand. - Second, warm it by pressing your fingers at the same time. - Third, cover the part that the lubricant wants to give with the tips of your finger that already has a lubricant. Avoid inserting it directly into the genital area, and remember only for external use.

"Application lubricants only in the required place, not internally," he added.

Regarding the number of lubricants used, you can use as much as you want. This amount can also be discussed with your partner.

You can use as much lubricant as you like in your vagina, penis, or anus or with your partner. Communicating your preferences with your partner can help decide where and how many lubricants will be used," concluded Siddharta.