LDM Is Not A Barrier, This Is How To Maintain Intimacy Through Phone Sex

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Long distance marriage (LDM) or distance marriage life may be experienced by some married couples, which are usually caused by their respective work demands. When LDM is certainly the intensity of having sex, it must be very reduced.

However, this can actually be overcome by having a phone sex. This is an activity of a partner having sex with a cellphone media intermediary.

Phone sex is when a couple has sex mediated by telephone, said sexist and relationship expert Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, quoted from The Knot, on Thursday, July 31, 2025.

Sexual relationships through this cellphone connection are usually couples through joint manstruation and verbal directions. Couples use words that can arouse enthusiasm and guide each other towards orgasm.

Having phone sex with your partner when LDM's condition is very good, because it is useful to maintain each other's connections, even though they are not close to each other.

"Doing sex by phone is a great way to connect with your partner if you don't have a direct opportunity to get close to each other physically," he explained.

Tara said that to do phone sex, each partner should have agreed. This is needed so that the phone sex does not go awkward, or does not satisfy each other.

In addition, before sending photos of vulgar nature, it is better to send text messages first to your partner. This can be a stage of heating up the atmosphere before entering the core of the phone sex.

If your partner is interested in having phone sex, then you should schedule the right time for both of you to do so. Tara recommends phone sex time ranging from 15 to 30 minutes.

The amount of time I recommend is 15 to 30 minutes. If the duration is too short, it may not be enough to build a mood, while if it is too long it will feel too protracted," concluded Tara.