JAKARTA - Miscarriage not only has an impact on women, but also on men. They can blame themselves or blame each other for the miscarriage that occurred.
This in the end can affect the relationship between married couples, including intimacy. If left alone, problems can accumulate, it can even end in a separation between husband and wife.
"Ences or loss of pregnancy is a painful experience for any partner. A woman experiences physical illness, sadness, stress," said gynecologist, Dr. Rita total, quoted from Healthshots, on Tuesday, July 15, 2025.
"There are also couples who may feel disconnected from each other or are unsure about how to get close again," he added.
Doctorosy said that communication and professional guidance are steps that can help couples deal with post-disaster situations. It is important to understand that re-building intimacy takes time slowly and the role of the male side is needed.
"It is very important for your partner to feel comfortable and not feel forced. At that time, a man played a very important role in his wife's life because he was the only one who was more emotionally and physically bound, and who suffered a shared loss," he explained.
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Here are some things that can be done to rebuild the intimacy of the partner after the miscarriage suggested by the expert.
- Wait at least 2 to 3 weeks, or until bleeding and pain stops.- Make sure that the two partners feel emotionally ready.- Listen to the body and respect emotions within yourself.- Open to each other's feelings, do not blame each other, and strengthen each other.- Consultation to the doctor regarding proper post-carrying sexual time, to consultation with the counselor if the period of difficulty after miscarriage is difficult to face alone.
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