JAKARTA - Online gambling (judol) is not only detrimental to the perpetrators. But it can also damage households. However, that doesn't mean it can't be repaired.
Clinical psychologist from the University of Indonesia Phoebe Ramadina, M.Psi., Psychologist said that the domestic conflicts that arise due to couples being involved in online gambling can still be improved if there are efforts and willingness to be released from judol.
See if there is any awareness, willingness to change, and commitment to undergo the recovery process from the couple. If real improvement efforts are seen, the relationship still has a chance to be maintained and rebuilt," Phoebe said when quoted by ANTARA.
Phoebe said online gambling habits pose a prolonged conflict and worsen the quality of relationships. The built household foundation can also be damaged and trigger a crisis of trust and create a sense of insecurity between partners.
Financial issues such as bankruptcy and a lack of effective communication are also domestic conflicts that may be caused by couples being addicted to online gambling, so it is important to be sensitive to early signs and immediately take steps to seek the right help.
The clinical psychologist at Personal Growth said that if gambling behavior continues to repeat itself without any intention to change, even to the point of having a serious impact on the mental, physical, or financial condition of the family, then considering healthy boundaries is an important step.
The decision to maintain or end marriage is not simple, and relies heavily on unique dynamics in each family. In situations like this, separation can be a realistic choice in order to maintain the safety and well-being of yourself and children, if any, "he said.
Phoebe also suggests staying clear in making decisions by separating personal emotions and the need to act for the safety of yourself and your family.
He said to keep prioritizing meeting basic needs and maintaining mental health, and to make sure that having children remains in a safe and emotionally stable environment.
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In a situation like this, Phoebe suggests seeking support from close people, communities, or professionals such as psychologists and financial counselors who can help manage emotional stress while designing recovery measures.
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