So as not to stir up further commotion, here are tips for wisely reducing conflicts in the household.

JAKARTA - Household travel will never be free from trials and problems. However, the twists and turns disguised as conflicts are what make couples understand each other and develop closer ties if they are successful. However, what if not?

Even though the relationship has been going on for a long time, unresolved conflicts together can trigger a rift in it. So, it's important for you to know how to solve household conflicts wisely. Launching Verily Life Sciences, Friday, February 13, here are the tips.

When you are in conflict with your partner, you must feel like stopping all communication with him. Let alone talking, just seeing his face is definitely reluctant to half die. But, to dampen the conflict in the household requires healthy communication so that problems can be resolved quickly. Through communication, you can express what you agree and disagree with.

Not only communicating, you also have to be fair by admitting your mistakes if you are the initiator. Silence will never solve the problem, it only complicates the situation.

Admitting mistakes is incomplete without an apology. Admitting mistakes and apologizing will not make you lose or be weak. Remember, in a marriage relationship no one wins or loses. The reason is, you are both people who are united to sail the household together.

By apologizing, the couple will feel understood and you will also find it easier to explain the matter after he forgives you. If he needs time to forgive, then give it.

Sometimes, a big anger can trigger someone to do unpleasant actions or throw hurtful words. For this reason, no matter how angry you are with your partner, try to avoid throwing hurtful sentences, blaming, let alone cursing your partner.

For example, if you feel like doing it, it's better to take a deep breath, hold it, then try to exhale. Repeat several times until you feel the mood is more under control. Conflict is normal, but don't let this be complicated with hateful words.

If you want to complain, do it without having to blame. So that your partner will understand better what you want and feel free from criticism, but given the opportunity to get to know you better.

Reducing conflicts in relationships can also be done by touching. Physical touch is a powerful tool in a relationship. When you and your partner touch, oxytocin hormones also increase. When oxytocin increases, the peak emotions can subside so that you and your partner can discuss comfortably.