Learning From Failure, Jenita Janet Improves Sincerely For The Survival Of Marriage

JAKARTA - Jenita Singer Janet openly admits that living a married life is not an easy thing.

Learning from past failure experiences, he now holds a strong principle in defending his household, namely by viewing marriage as a test of resilience.

"It's not easy, masya Allah is not easy (to live a marriage). Because I had experience yesterday 9 months failed so I tried not to repeat or minimize things that had been wrong," Jenita Janet was quoted as saying by VOI from YouTube TransTV Official, Monday, August 11.

According to him, the biggest challenge in marriage is to unite two individuals with their respective egos and shortcomings.

"It means that it has been wrong to minimize things that can cause fights, and sometimes the ego is difficult, yes, these two humans are destined to have to complement each other's shortcomings, there will definitely be advantages, shortcomings of each," he continued.

"But that's where the essence of marriage is, can we survive? Who is the strongest," said Jenita Janet.

This philosophy is what he holds firmly to this day. "Yes, maybe if my friends have heard my words, that's what I have applied in my life until now. Especially in the household," said Jenita Janet.

"The greatest thing is who is the strongest partner," explained Jenita Janet.

He is now able to see the wisdom behind the failure of his past. Although the divorce hurts, he believes there is a better God's plan behind it.

"Alhamdulillah, yes. Because everything that happened, I failed yesterday, failed again it was that painful, but it turns out that I know the lesson, O Allah, it turns out that Allah keeps things that may not be good for me, even though it hurts really, you know, the divorce," he said.

The pain, according to him, actually paved the way for greater happiness.

"But it turns out that behind the pain that really makes me really down, there is happiness, there is an opportunity, there is an opportunity that Allah has given me the opportunity to be able to feel more happiness," he continued.

With the same perspective, Janet is now more sincere in waiting for her mother's presence, believing that everything happens for the best reason.

"So even so now, children have not been given, it's not necessarily a bad thing," concluded Jenita Janet.