The Duration Of Making Love That Many Women Want, How Long?

JAKARTA - Making love is an important activity in a husband and wife relationship. In making love, there are many factors that affect their enjoyment and satisfaction, one of which is duration.

The study revealed that it turned out that there was a certain duration that women wanted during sex. The study, published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, collected 645 women from various countries and asked about their sexual experiences.

The study then revealed how long the average woman enjoyed the sex session. If on average a man can stay in bed for almost 20 minutes, then women reach an average orgasm in 13 minutes 41 seconds.

However, this time includes heating or foreplay, not the main penetration. It should also be noted that although many women can reach climax in about 14 minutes, it turns out that in general they want a longer duration.

However, it is also important to remember that everyone is different. The duration of making love that provides maximum pleasure and satisfaction for each couple is also influenced by many factors.

Starting from genetic factors, anatomy, and personal preferences also play a major role in the length of time when a couple has sex. The energy level also affects sexual satisfaction.

"Your energy level, your time, what you want, and overall sexual satisfaction in your relationship," said certified sex coach Lucy Rowett, quoted by Men's Health, Monday, December 1, 2025.

With the duration of making love that this woman wants, it does not mean that men must have a longer erection so that their partner is really aroused and has an orgasm.

Men can do more foreplay and provide more stimulation to their women. This is because women's satisfaction is not only from major penetration, but also from foreplay.