Couples Are Hard To Open When There Are Problems? Here's The Tips Facing It

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JAKARTA - Maybe one of the so many people who have a partner with a tendency is difficult to talk to when there is a problem. What can be done to deal with a partner like this? Psychologist from the Three Generations, Alfath Hanifah Megawati suggested, the first thing you can do, recognize what, maybe your partner is not the type who likes to communicate the problem.

"Knowing that your partner is not used to talking about what he needs or communicating what he feels," he said, as reported by ANTARA, Tuesday, February 14.

After that, try teaching your partner how to communicate conflicts well so as to produce positive solutions. To get to this stage, you must first have the ability to resolve conflicts.

On the other hand, do self-evaluation. Pay attention to whether you have a scary expression when talking to your partner when there are problems or how to talk that is not relaxed enough. It could be that when your partner communicates with you it is depressed.

"Maybe every time we are in conflict we put up a scary expression so that we don't open up a comfortable discussion space with your partner. Tiliking from us is not only from the side of the partner. Maybe I'm not relaxed enough," said Alfath, who is usually greeted by Ega.

There is nothing wrong with offering a choice of assistance, such as asking your partner how you should respond to problems or the style of communication as what makes your partner comfortable so as to open a discussion room.

Sometimes changing habits is difficult, including for someone who was initially used to not expressing his thoughts to others. You have to be patient with a partner like this and slowly make him want to open up.