5 Kiat Finding Couples In Life, One Of Them Becomes Yourself

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JAKARTA - Looking for the right life partner is not an easy matter, because there are several things that make it difficult for someone to find a partner, ranging from time constraints and busy work to incompatibility factors for those who are already in a relationship.

However, you don't need to worry because there are many ways to get a partner. Here are five steps that can be taken to find a mate reported by Antara from dating.com.

Before starting to find a partner, you should start to understand and assess yourself, identify weaknesses and advantages, so that you can grow self-confidence.

Confidence can be a driving force that makes you move to find a life partner. If you already judge yourself as someone worthy of a relationship, then unexpectedly your heart will open and will eventually meet your partner.

Not only that, you should also consider what purpose of life you want to achieve.

After finding your identity and being confident, start making the criteria for the desired partner. But keep in mind, getting a perfect partner without a shortage is impossible.

Try to reconsider the list of criteria. If it is too grandiose, you should reconsider which criteria you should maintain and which ones you should not.

A suitable partner is those who can feel comfortable together. However, try to feel whether the comfort you get when you are with them is truly a sincere love or just blind love.

Signs of compatibility with a partner can be seen from both having stable and mature emotions, good communication and having the same goals.

If it's just because it's dimmed by love, you should think carefully before deciding to get married, because a relationship based on blind love does not last long.

After getting to know yourself and making dreams, it's time to meet new people. However, if you're afraid to meet new people in the real world, try starting from a dating app.

During the pandemic, it is certainly difficult for you to get to know new people because most of the activities are run from home. For that, you can try the option of getting acquainted through an application or website.

The advantage of getting acquainted on the internet is that you can identify the target person without having to meet in person. You can also know your profession to your target hobby through social media.

After meeting virtually and chatting with him is suitable, you can exchange phone numbers to start more specific chats, such as work, family, favorite foods, favorite film genres and others.

This is an important point whether your relationship will continue or not. If you feel attracted and open to each other, there's nothing wrong with letting everything flow to the first meeting.