JAKARTA - My father has high hopes for my son so that later he can become a strong, firm and courageous male figure. In revolutionary psychology, which is a derivative of Darwin's theory of evolution, my father wants to reduce his generation to a boy. The boy is still considered the successor to the family name. Different from the daughter, who later can change her last name with her husband's name.
So that boys can grant their parents' expectations, proper training is needed. Especially the special teachings of the father for the child. So, what life lessons do you need to share with your son?
Adapting All Pro Dad, Friday, December 2, a gentleman's attitude can be in the form of a corner of people's hands while looking at the opponent's eyes with respect. Open the door to the opposite sex, or carry a bag or item when you see someone objecting to carrying the luggage.
Respect women physically by respecting her body. As well as accepting the fact that a woman's body is only intended for her future husband. Meanwhile, respecting women emotionally is to understand that she has a much different way of thinking and feeling than you.
Teaching responsibilities to boys can be done by asking them to do something right and right. If it is not appropriate, then train your child to dare to apologize and tell him to keep doing something well in the future.
Everyone is created to work and work is a good activity. Work is needed to create a productive life. Hard work teaches self-discipline. Not only healthy in the body, work can also nourish the mind.
Launching Time of India, parents need to express their support for your child to dare to express himself when he is sad, angry, or upset. Allow your little one to cry whenever he wants to do it. Sometimes, boys are prohibited from crying because crying indicates weakness.
Winning and losing is part of life. The important thing is when you lose, keep trying to get up and never give up on achieving your dreams. And when you win, remember to always be humble and want to keep learning.
Stereotipe men are always attached to harsh and angry characters. Teaching children the understanding that having an angry nature does not make him a true man. On the other hand, his student is to be a gentle and gentle person.
A person's style of speech determines the character of that person. So, it's important to teach your child how to say good words when having conversations with others. Teach from the simplest such words of apology and gratitude.
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