5 Phases To Build Relations Through Each Couple

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JAKARTA - Most couples will go through several phases in building a romantic relationship. And for those who make it through these five phases, their love relationship will be stronger and more intense. The phase of building a relationship also helps each couple develop into an adult person. So, this is the phase in building a relationship that is usually passed by each couple, launching Marriage.com, Wednesday, November 16.

The first thing in the stage of building a relationship is the initiation. In this phase, the main focus is to make a positive impression. You and your prospective partner will find out each other for information and generally only talk about each other's good things.

Both you and your partner try to look funny, successful, and polite in order to enter the criteria for an ideal partner. The initiation is a complicated stage because this is where the decision is made to continue the relationship or not. When you are at the initiation stage, try not to get bored because it can make your future partner feel lost.

No one wants to get into a relationship that can damage mental health. To avoid this, it is necessary to do an experiment. You and your prospective partner start to make frequent appointments. Its function is to get to know the personal of a potential partner. In this phase too, you and your prospective partner will find out their similarities, closeness, and identity.

Intensory is one of the phases in building the most difficult relationships as you and your partner have started to involve feelings in the relationship. You and the one start sharing the details of the past and future plans. You and your partner will find it difficult to get along with each other and continue to think about how to build this relationship more seriously.

In this phase too, the commitment is starting to be developed. You and your prospective partner not only see the good side, but also the bad side of personality. Every conflict that appears begins to be found a solution together. You begin to question the direction of your relationship.

Integration is a happy phase because you and your partner are starting to believe in your relationship and hope to succeed. No more doubt because you already know each other what to expect from each other. And in the love relationship phase, this is the highest peak. Serious talks about the future of the relationship are starting.

Bonding is the last phase in building a love relationship. Marriage usually occurs in this phase. At this stage too, almost no conflict occurred because it was resolved at the beginning of the introduction stage.