YOGYAKARTA Not many people know what silent treatment is. Even though this attitude is often carried out. The psychological effects are quite influential on the victims.
Silent treatment can not only occur in a romantic relationship, it can also occur in friendship or in other social relationships. To get to know him better, here are the summarys taken from various sources.
Silent treatment is a silence that is carried out by someone to other people, which in this attitude includes neglect to stop all forms of communication.
For example, lovers experience serious debate. In the debate, the man suddenly ignored the woman without any explanation, did not communicate, even the attitude of the man did not seem to think that the woman was there.
On the other hand, the woman tried to communicate with the man, trying to solve the problem, but there was no response or response from the male side.
Although there is no physical contact, silent treatment can be said to be a form of psychological violence because the impact can shake the victim's mental condition.
Although in practice the perpetrators of silent treatment are not intended for anything, the impact that can be caused is quite serious from the psychological side, namely as follows.
This impact did not appear at once but gradually. Silent treatment victims will harbor their own feelings and withdraw from the perpetrators.
Silent treatment attitudes can be known by taking into account the characteristics reflected in the behavior of the victim, namely as follows.
The above characteristics can be different for each person. But basically the silent treatment is in the form of one person's quietness and avoidance to another.
No need to worry too much when you feel that you are the object of silent treatment behavior. What you need for the first time is patience and a cold head to solve the problem and relieve the perpetrators of silent treatment. In detail, how to deal with silent treatment is as follows.
Silent treatment actors have various motives in the sense of intentionally or unintentionally. Therefore, you need to know whether his silence is temporary to avoid conflict or in the long term. To find out, you have to be calm and silent while watching.
When you are silenced, avoid your wild assumptions because it will worsen the situation and psychological conditions. Try to think realisticly and find the root of the problem.
Silent treatment can be reduced by the opposite attitude, namely caring and affection. Try to show that you care about him. Small attention will relax his tough attitude.
After the cold situation, try to discuss calmly. Find a middle ground and avoid temporary debate. You can be a listener first. After that express your heart's content.
This step is an anticipatory step so that in the future, you don't get silent treatment from the same person.
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