Short Sex Duration Or Lasting Hours, Which Actually Women Want Most?

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JAKARTA - When having sex, many men are confused which one is better. Between the duration of sex is short or last for hours in bed. Husbands need to know which one is better to do when it comes to their partner.

It turns out that according to experts, sex that lasts less than 5 minutes can be considered premature ejaculation. Although short, it is considered sufficient and satisfying for some people.

Meanwhile, a study says the duration of the most perfect sex is 3 to 13 minutes. Penn State Erie researchers Eric Corty and Jenay Guardiani conducted a survey of 50 people. They asked about the duration of sex on the participants.

They also made 3 choices, 3-7 minutes was considered as sufficient duration of sex, 7-13 minutes as the desired duration of sex and 1-2 minutes as the duration of sex is too short, and 30 minutes as the duration of sex is too short. long.

Men's and women's interpretations of their sexual function and that of their partners depend on personal beliefs that are developed in part by environmental influences.

Many men and women seem to have fantasies of large penises, rock-hard erections and the duration of sex throughout the night.

"With this survey, we hope to dispel such fantasies and encourage both men and women with realistic data about acceptable sexual relationships, thereby preventing disappointment and sexual dysfunction," said Eric Corty, professor of psychology. .

One of the big misconceptions is that most women pursue long sex sessions, but this is not the case.

Although it takes women about 20 minutes to orgasm compared to men who only need about five minutes, deep penetration for long periods of time will be more painful than pleasure.

A study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy in 2017 found that only 18 percent of women said that sex alone could make them reach a climax.

Another 82 percent of women needed clitoral stimulation that had nothing to do with marathon long sex sessions. Sex therapist, Laurie Mintz also said the process of penetration that is too long can make women experience dryness and experience pain.