5 Signs You And Your Partner Can Have A Good Long Distance Relationship

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JAKARTA - Not everyone can live a long distance love relationship. Many couples actually have to end the relationship because their feelings of love are eroded by distance. However, don't be pessimistic if you are facing an LDR (long distance relationship). Because who knows you have the ability to live LDR well. Here are some proofs or signs if you can undergo LDR well.

Strong commitment

One of the signs that your long-distance relationship with your partner is going well is when you are able to fully commit to each other. When you and your partner are living apart, things can get tough because you never know if he or she will show up when you need them. Or your partner has found someone else to replace you. Because of this fear, it is not surprising that many relationships have to run aground in the middle of the road.

For that, if you and your partner have a strong commitment in undergoing LDR, you can be sure that your long-distance relationship has been successful. In essence, commitment should always go both ways, no matter how far apart you are.

Mutual trust

A strong commitment needs to be based on mutual trust. If you already have mutual trust, then there is no mutual suspicion or worrying about something excessive. Having mutual trust is the main provision for surviving LDR. This is the foundation that will guard each other's heart from the temptations of a third person but also test how much you can commit.

You can talk things out with your partner

If you feel your partner is the right person to join you in undergoing LDR. You will feel comfortable when talking about any topic with him. Whether serious conversation, jokes, to gossip, you feel he is the right person to talk to about these things.

You will never have doubts because he is someone you can completely trust and never makes you feel judged. and it is one of the surest signs of true love in a long distance relationship.

Not easily jealous

Being a non-jealous person is the most ideal advantage for anyone who is living a long distance love life. Because after all you can not see how the activities of each day directly in front of your eyes so it is natural for there to be suspicious and jealous thoughts. But if you're not the jealous type, it's likely to be easier to go through LDR.

Don't hold grudges

Fighting in a relationship is normal. What's important is that you can forgive and forget as soon as you talk about the things that are bothering you.

If you hold grudges and can't get past the fight, then reconciliation will be difficult in the future. If you both love each other, then you will not bring up old fights or bad memories of the past because those are things that should be left behind.