Separated From Hotma Sitompul, Desiree Tarigan Does Not Envy The Person Who Is More Dear To His Partner

Desiree Tarigan (Photo: IG @mamitoko)

JAKARTA - Desiree Tarigan admitted that he had forgiven his ex-husband, Hotma Sitompul. Even though the breakup was like a drama, Desiree was reluctant to carry the hurt for long.

"If the problem is solved, it might be easier. If you forgive yes of course, what should you do, whats your point you not forgiving, God only forgives us who have sinned a lot. No human is perfect either," said Desiree via Melaney Ricardo's Youtube account some time ago.

Twenty-two years of being in a household with Hotma is not a short time. The two of them certainly have a lot of memories when they were together. Desiree admitted that she did not want to reconcile or even remarry.

"No. I want to enjoy my life with my son, with my grandchildren and later if there are more yes (grandchildren). Right now, I am happy like this," said Desiree.

On Instagram, Desiree often uploads words of wisdom based on her experience. As uploaded Monday, August 1st. "Good afternoon friends, mom wants to share in the afternoon. Often we feel that other people are luckier, other people have a better life, other people are more loved by their partners and children," he said.

According to him, it happens because we only focus on the blessings received or owned by others. "While the blessings we receive we take it for granted, feel it is normal, even though other people have different views. Let's try to focus on the blessings we have. Count the blessings. We will be surprised," he suggested.

Even though he had problems in the past, he was still grateful. "I am grateful that I only count the blessings so that all the struggles of life are not my focus. My focus is on the Creator who has given me life. And believe in HIS timing, everything will be beautiful in HIS time," concluded Desiree Tarigan.