According To Experts, Masturbation During Sex Help Reach Orgasm

Illustration of masturbation during sex helping to reach orgasm (Freepik/Gpointstudio)

YOGYAKARTA – Masturbation is generally understood as a natural and safe way to recognize the body's sensitive points. More simply, in this way one understands and can study one's own body. Even reported by Healthline, masturbation trains self-love and understands what turns you on.

Many people believe that masturbation before penetration –or sex- has a positive effect. Although these findings are not scientific, but some people believe that masturbating before having sex with a partner can release pent-up sexual tension, making sessions in bed longer.

Others may experience changes in hormone levels that slow their sex drive, as well as the time it takes to orgasm. These fluctuations can also affect the body's ability to excrete natural lubricants. Because for women, intimate relationships will not be comfortable if there is not enough lubrication.

Scientifically, masturbation before penetration has not been scientifically proven to create a positive effect. This is because everyone's sexual preferences are different. This means that there is no guarantee it will last longer in some couples, but there are also those that make sex sessions more enjoyable and more passionate.

Everyone after climax experiences a refractory period or recovery phase. This happens when the body reaches a climax, sensual stimulation has reached its limit. When past this point, will feel uncomfortable. Usually how long the refractory period is depends on age, gender, and sensitivity. In young men, it takes a few minutes to recover. Whereas in older men, it takes 12 to 24 hours.

In women, the refractory period is usually shorter. This allows women to have multiple orgasms in one session. But the fact is, regardless of whether or not the sex session lasts until it reaches a climax, mutual masturbation is a great way to see what makes your partner and you hotter and find ways to satisfy each other.

If you want to integrate masturbation into a foreplay session, you can do three ways that are recommended by experts. First, by meeting each other face to face and responding to the most sensitive sensual points, such as the clitoris and scrotum. Second, sit next to each other and have fun by touching body parts. Third, with the classic 69 position, where everyone can give each other a sensual touch.

Scientifically, masturbation can help achieve orgasm. If you or your partner have difficulty reaching climax, then using your hands or lovetoys can bring you closer to climax. It also helps to chase the limits of desire to the max.

For every couple, it is very important to 'listen' to the body. If you want to masturbate before making love, then do it. If not, don't do it. Because there is no right or wrong way to do it except to hear the body's response and consent to each partner.