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YOGYAKARTA – Certain things need to be considered carefully to communicate them with your partner. Including financial problems to feelings of jealousy. It's important to know that if he doesn't choose the right words, he could hurt his heart.

Sometimes anything has to be said. Therefore, consider if you want to say these seven things. Choose the right sentence so that it is understood without triggering misunderstanding and complicating the problem.

1. Jealousy

Men have relationships, both with male and female friends. So, when you're feeling jealous for no apparent reason, reconsider expressing it. Try to find out how close your partner is to his girlfriend. If jealousy is not proven, you can convey it in a joke.

2. Appearance

Have you ever felt discouraged and felt unattractive? This sentence does not like your male partner you know. Basically men do not like you underestimate yourself, especially about appearance.

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Illustration of things men don't like (Freepik/Lookstudio)
3. Saying 'fine' is fine

Saying 'okay' in a bad situation, is not liked by men. Most of them like an honest statement and nothing is covered up. This means being forthright about what happened so that both of you can work together to deal with situations, including the worst.

4. Ex messaged

Even if you don't like it, you need to tell your partner so you don't misunderstand. Jealousy may be felt by your partner. So choose the right moment and sentence so as not to spoil the atmosphere.

5. Ask him to relax

Even when your partner is nagging or babbling about something, the last thing he wants to be with is for him to calm down. But he didn't want to be told to relax in the face of it. His recommendation, try to convey the sentence calmly and give him the enthusiasm to keep fighting until he gets his achievement.

6. Not listening well

Being a good listener, at one time will be difficult. Especially if you have to complete a lot of tasks and meet a lot of people. Meanwhile, when with your partner, you must stay focused on listening to what he has to say. Otherwise, he will feel unnoticed or cared for.

7. Saying bad things in front of other people

This is a matter of self-respect, when saying bad things in front of other people, think again. For example, say he is bad at managing money. This issue is in the personal realm, so you can simply discuss it with your partner. If you need help, you can tell someone close or professional.

Those are things that need to be carefully considered to be expressed in a partner. In order for the relationship to remain harmonious, maintain effective communication and respect each other's boundaries.


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